Choosing your ideal gemstone ring can be a daunting task. With the latest edition of Walter Schumann’s Gemstones of the World listing over 200 different varieties, how do you know what gemstone is right for you? To further complicate the problem, gemstones are said to have different planetary vibrations, properties and meanings so it isn’t always a matter of choosing based on looks alone.
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The easiest way to choose a gemstone is to choose one you love. Choose the one that speaks to you or that you feel an attraction to.
If the gemstone will be a gift, find out if the person has an affinity for their birthstone. The most coveted birthstones are rubies, emeralds, sapphires so persons born in July, May and September will usually not object to receiving their birthstone. As for the other birthstones, it is usually a matter of personal taste. Plus some months have more than one gemstone, so the wearer my prefer one over the other.
You can also choose birthstones to represent a person. Some engagement rings have three stones, the traditional center diamond, the groom’s birthstone and the bride’s birthstone. Mothers are sometimes gifted with a ring that has the birthstone of each of their children.
In the event that you are giving someone a gemstone to celebrate an anniversary, there are different gemstones associated with different anniversaries.
Each gemstone has a varying level of hardness. Harder gemstones are better for gemstone rings while softer gemstones are more appropriate for a gemstone pendant or gemstone earrings. Where the gemstone ranks on the Mohs scale of hardness will tell you if the stone is considered durable or delicate. Sapphires and rubies (rated a 9 on the Mohs hardness scale) are the second-hardest stone after diamonds so they are the most dependable choice. Emeralds and Tanzanites, (both rated a 7.5 to an 8 on the Mohs hardness scale) are considered fragile but are still considered valuable because of their rarity.
When it comes to healing properties, gemstones are said to carry planetary vibrations that can be used in one of two ways. You can wear a gemstone for a long life or as a temporary healing treatment. If you are wearing gemstone jewelry for longevity it is advised to wear your moon sign gemstone which is different from your traditional sun sign birthstone; however it is advised that you consult your spiritual healer to be certain you are choosing the right one.
For temporary healing, you can use the gemstone associated with the physical or spiritual area you are trying to improve. Rubies are an empowering stone that give the wearer the strength to overcome martyrdom and escape self-inflicted suffering. Tanzanite is a calming stone and is said to enhance composure and harmony. It is the perfect stone for workaholics and helps them take it easy by calming overactive minds. According to folklore, peridots are protective stones that dispel negative energy, especially if it is set in a yellow gold setting and worn around the neck.
